Sunday, October 14, 2007

Try Smiling!!



OK, so here's the deal.
Your level of self-esteem limits (or adds to) your ability to move through life with pizzazz, zest and confidence. It also determines your probability of attracting the sort of life-mate you desire, business or work success and almost every aspect of your life.

There are many ways to raise your slef-esteem, but one really simple way that you can try immediately is to get a smile on your face. You know, a really genuine smile; the kind that creates all crinkles around your eyes.Because a genuine smile actually lights up the natural optimism centre of the brain. And if you can (where appropriate) greet others with a smile, and look them straight in the eye as you do so.

Recent scientific research clearly established that just "acting" self-confident will MAKE you more self-confident. But here's the catch. You MUST believe in what you are doing and really feel it; not just go through the motions on automatic pilot.Consequently if you act as if you are the person you wish to be, guess what happens? You will eventually BECOME that person.

Don't believe me? Just "suck it and see"!!!!

3 comments:

Paul said...

Hi V!

Great overall blog and nice post! I agree with your thoughts entriely and even find I have to give myself a good talking to now and then when I wear an unapporachable frown!

Paul

holly said...

totally love the pic. and wise words in the post. :)

Vanessa said...

Thanks guys!!!

I just loved the picture. So the picture came first and then I had to come up with something to write. Not always the best round to do things, but it worked this time.